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Originally Posted by skysblue
One way I've told T difficult stuff is to write it down and read it. It allows me to avoid eye contact and to dissociate a bit so I am able to do it. For the really tough stuff I'll prelude by saying that I don't want to talk about it right now but just read it and then move on to something else.
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I think that I will do something similar. If it were 2 years ago, I wouldn't even consider the option of telling him. But it's the only honest and truthful relationship I ever had, and I don't want to spoil it. But it's so hard.