I am happy for you. I reckon it is a relief when things sort of work themselves out like this.

My husband's ex girlfriend and mother of his daughter still will not talk to me after about 6 years. She has only recently started greeting me and at least allows my stepdaughter to come to us.
It is not that bad though - she is in no way a thorn in my side. She just refuses to talk to me.

Your kids will only respect you for this.

Thank you for sharing - I enjoyed reading this.