You deserve better than these "friends" are treating you. Any chance that the one you hung out with last night was using drugs or alcohol? Substances like that can make some people act mean like you are describing.

Your boyfriend has not given you reason to trust him. I don't know what your plans for the future are, but I see a brighter future for you than the one that his actions will lead to. He's not really going to change until it is his decision. Just telling you that he is going to and not acting on it isnt good enough. I don't know if anything you say or do will get him to turn his life around - it won't unless he chooses to work on it. You need to make the decisions that will allow you your best chances for the kind of life you want to have. My advice to you is to put your needs first and hang around with people who treat you better, are honest with you, and are on track for the kind of life that you want to have.



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