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Old Nov 03, 2011, 06:45 AM
Emily_Strange Emily_Strange is offline
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Originally Posted by gulas View Post
Both Hankster and LoveHopeStrength14 are correct. At a point in the not-too-distant future, it will bother you that your bf thinks Rodin is a French pornstar. Yelling at any parent, esp. in front of you, is the height of bad manners; you don't need a Jewish mother to tell you that. Everything you detail points to an ever-widening divergence of interests which will ultimately result in a break-up-even if by then you have trained him to be the world's greatest lover.

The porno stuff is all within the societal norm. I think, at least in my orbit, that most men are panty snatchers; they are just a momento and need not always be be seen as a "trophy." I will never understand though, why women would put up with all that other garbage you describe. Again-and I surely am no snob- this behavior too is the height of ill manners.
I feel better now that everyone is assuring me the hyper porn interest is normal!!!

Hopefully, he'll grow out of the other things. I think he has great potential, but you know. He's younger, I'm a bit older...

Honest truth is that I'm just dealing with some anxiety. Despite his one-dimensionalness, its the most healthy relationship I've had in awhile. If I don't figure out what I need to watch out for, I could end up blindsided here. Trust doesn't come easy.