fins, thank you. I agree with you that the negative posts always get more responses. Maybe because then we can offer suggestions; all there is to say about a happy post is "hurray, good for you" whereas someone hurting makes us want to help, send hugs, etc.

Bunny: thank you. I know I'm experiencing transference because my Mom used to praise my writing and I miss that. I've got to learn that I don't need external praise. It's nice, though. I've told you how much I love the cuddly bunny picture, haven't I?