Thanks ((KathyM)) - they broke the mold when my husband was made. I know he's the most frustrating and egotistical person I've ever met. I called the lady lawyer who our friend recommended and she doesn't take legal aid cases. I'll wait for tomorrow to call our local legal aid since they're closed ATM and I'll try to call a some other lawyers to see if they give free consultations. Its sad you need money to get divorced.