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Originally Posted by hankster
He seems a little one-dimensional, and you are interested in a lot more things - just doesn't seem like a good match. I would be more concerned about that, and the yelling at his mom. Maybe it's just that he's young and hasn't developed many interests yet, so you could train him up the way you want him, but does that ever really work? I would tread carefully out of this one.
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You always advise caution in romantic relationships, Hankster!
My wife and I took about a week to fall in love. (We were in our early twenties.) We both had issues and the relationship was driven by desperation and codependency and lust. Friends were horrified. But we grew together and we're still together.
I asked my wife once what she had seen in me. "You were smart and handsome and funny and had a good heart." She did NOT think I was reliable and responsible - but I am now!