I sincerely appreciate your concern ECHOES, but if I go the licensed provider route, I have to start with the BC/BS providers list. It's still a crap shoot, and the copays and time spent trying to find one capable and willing to actually perform can be overwhelming. Not enough time left in life.
Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of real nice people out there, they're just not capable being able to do any good. I saw a great social worker once, but she spent too much time trying to sell EMDR or some other kind of therapeutic tricks.

All I need is some one safe to who can explain what is right and how to react to overt sexuality seen out in society. Simple.
Tom S. in Tn.