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Old Nov 03, 2011, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted by happycheeks View Post
I remember I had a friend who had a boyfriend. I knew her boyfriend but the sad thing was... he wasn't very nice. He used to be nice until he met my friend. He changed. He called me fat. He mentioned about me being fat and rolling down a hill. I have forgotten most of his insults. I don't care about his insults now. I believe my boyfriend and not a scum. My boyfriend likes my shape and thinks I am beautiful. I remember on msn, he insulted me with words such as ginger. I'm trying to remember what he sent me but I have forgotten now. It's a good thing to forget. I broke down in tears. There are so many nasty people in this world. It's unbelievable what they say to you. So anyway, She said to my group of "friends". They shouldn't hang out with me or go anywhere near me. She called me a b**tc*. I remember I was sitting on a bench and I saw my friend and her boyfriend walking across a street away from me. I think my friend stuck up her two fingers at me but I smiled strangely. I was innocent, I didn't do anything wrong. But then my friend and her boyfriend split up. She added me on Facebook one day which was odd. She was nice to me all of a sudden. She told me she split up with her boyfriend. I was glad my friend was kind again. I'm with someone but being with someone doesn't make me nasty? So why did my friend and her ex - boyfriend act like bullies towards me?? I'm not sad thinking of this. I'm past it but I do wonder why she was acting nasty towards me all of a sudden.


I am sorry you are associated with people who are on again off again. You must know you can not control what others say or do. If you are ok with your behavior then shine them on. If they do not approve of you for whatever reason then forget them. If you and only if you feel you have need to change certain behaviors etc then do so!
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