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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I'm glad it works for you. For me, it doesn't work for my T to email me back because she can't answer me in depth and that hurts me.
So, I am very happy right now that I can still email her as much as I want to, I don't expect any answers, and it works!!! I emailed her how much I liked our session, I sent her my poem, and am sending her photos from my trip!! I know she reads everything I send her.   |
I wonder if it's just a matter of perspective/expectations. The main reason I email is for me to tell her something, not to get a satisfactory response. I've mentioned several times to her in some of my longer emails that I don't expect a response (because I feel intrusive by initiating contact outside the office - my thing to deal with since she's offered/encouraged it - and because I don't want to sit on pins and needles waiting for a response). Sometimes she replies, sometimes she doesn't; when she doesn't, she refers to what I've said when we meet so I feel justified in sending it. Getting a response from her is always calming or helpful though.
Either way, I'm glad you're able to share with her and you know she reads what you send her.