I too think that my daughter deserves a better mother. Sometimes, when I'm feeling particulary useless and down, I tell her father that she would better of if he's her only parent or if he looks for a better mother for her. But, bless his heart, he tells me that I am her mother, that there's a reason why I'm her mother and that NO ONE would be better for her but me. That's why I know that if I want her to have a better mom, I have to become one myself, because no one else would for her. She needs me.