in a post by onlymedid she asked about should she tell her T about missing her?and how should she.
someone responded with a comment saying that she didn't see a point in doing this and that stuck with me.
i have been struggling hugely with missing my T lately(something really new to me) and i really don't understand why so this is all interesting to me.
in thinking about it i also cant see a point in telling this to my T in fact i am terrified to tell her this because i think if i do she will be completely repulsed by me and totally push me away to protect her boundaries .
i really am interested to know what benefits people see in telling there T this when they miss them so much.and if you have did you get any benefit or satisfaction in doing so ? was it a bad outcome.was your TY accepting of it.
i could never tell T this and totally understand onlymedid's concerns.just wondering about others opinions and advice about this.
WHATS the point in telling ?