I think what bugs me about it is how many people, like my boyfriend, don't realize that women don't really look like the girls in porn or in the magazines...Or even in the strip club!! They have make up, creams, photoshop, lighting, camera or dancing angles, and endless rounds of photos taken just to get a handful of good ones. Just cause it looks effortless and natural doesn't mean it is.
I think that's one good reason why it makes women insecure and men crazed. We are aware of what is expected from us in the media in general...Porn just says it more plainly. Its reaching for perfection, and that's a lot of pressure. I'm not an image on tv. I'm just a regular person....and in general, people are pretty boring. Even in the bedroom sometimes.

I'm not always feeling sexy when you feel sexy, but the girls in porn are. You can't expect the same in real life. If I don't want chinese food, don't take me to chinese! Compromise. Cause that's real life. But if you have a girl who is willing to spoil you and give you whatever you want whenever you want, well...That's what the man will learn to expect and ask for. Men must be taught how to behave properly when it comes to sex in general... and if you don't teach men how to behave around women, porn has the ability to create men who think "Girls in porn are always there to get me off whenever I want, why won't this girl get me off right now? Isn't this how girls are?"

Someone needs to be teaching men how to decipher the world in general before the media tells them how to.