Since im newly diagnosed with Bipolar .. my husband and a few people i confided in pretty much do the same thing to me ,,,,,, Holy hell its annoying and this topic often comes up with my weekly visits to my Therapist ....
My Therapist told me initally its common for thoses who know i have gotten this lovely diagnosis to act this way ... Its ridiculous to be honest .. that said I personally am still learning what about my personality is and isnt bipolar which according to my Therpist IS normal... I " TRY" to not snap or blow up over situations when i feel other " assuming" things about me ...

I think its awesome you took it upon yourself and cleaned up a hell of a mess that wasnt even yours ..

Wishing you Peace and Love ~