I'm dxed with Bipolar 1 AND Borderline... Sucks not knowing day to day which one will rear it's ugly head! But I'm learning slowly how to distingish between the two. VERY SLOWLY.. LOL

Anyhow, it's not uncommon to have more than one dx of mental illness as some of the traits are seen in each.

As far as the jealousy... OMG here I am 3 marriages down the drain (and I'm only 33) and my current SO getting fed up with me... I just CANNOT gain control over it! I wish you better luck.