Hi Guys...

I'm really new at this and still swallowing the diagnosis and all..but 2 things are helping me a lot. One is a book called the Buddha and the Borderline by Kiera Van Gelder. She went throught the brunt of it and had a terrible time with the jealousy like ya'll are talking about. She was able to overcome a lot of it. It's a cool book and better than some of the others I've been reading.
The other one is a little riskier. It's a site by A J Mahari, and she is Borderline and is now a life coach for borderlines and their families and S.O.'s and so part of the site is for us and part for people that are supporting us. She has some cool insights. I like a lot of what she says, but a little of it was a little shaming for me personally so take what you need and leave the rest as they say IMO. http://borderlinepersonality.ca/ that's the link and there are related links you can go to..she's in Canada.

I hope this might resonate with you or help a little..like I said..just learning myself and need all the help I can find. You guys probably already know all about this stuff anyway....

Wysteria Blue