Funny you should mention that- my 17 year old son (who I must admit does make me realize at times that my worrying about her watching me is kind of silly) will sometimes wave at her window (I am unsure if she can see lol) when I tell him to walk quietly up the stairs, or not to slam the car doors too loud. The more he tells me that she isn't watching and that she doesn't care what we are doing- the more it sinks in that she most likely isn't. Maybe if I hear it enough times I will finally believe it...