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Originally Posted by unhappyguy
if you're really a woman inside then perhaps you should be dating men. gay men would fit you about right because, speaking from my own experience, they are really women inside their heads. there are lots of balding, hairy gay men like you! (I am one of them. There is a gay community of "bears" (big, hairy guys) and they are unpretentious and fun.) why don't you give it a try? you don't have to rush into gay sex; merely investigate and make friends and see if you are comfortable there and feel welcome.
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Ok, you were bang on up until this part. Sexual orientation and gender identity are two entirely different issues all together. Just because someone feels they are a woman inside doesn't mean they will be attracted to men. sillyfish seems pretty clear that they are interested in women only, and while I might encourage further exploration of their sexual interests, I would not immediately say 'go try things out with guys instead!' like you did.
FYI: the ratio of straight to LGB members of the trans community roughly reflects the same ratio in the population as a whole.