Sounds like the relationship was not all bad. There were some good things and it sounds like you are very aware of the bad things. If you miss her it would not hurt to email her. She might be missing the friendship as well. Since you know her you can now develop some boundries with her so she cannot hurt you in the future.
She may not be interested in starting a friendship up again. That is the chance you take in emailing her, but the only way you will know is to put yourself out there.
Just know what you are looking for and be realistic in any expectations that you have.You might now want to think of some boundries you will need if she chooses to start the friendship up again.
Thinking of you
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