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Originally Posted by Perna
It sounds like a young guy fresh out of the Catholic school box? Without much overall experience, I don't think he's mature enough to "get it" about relationships yet? I'd talk to him, tell him what you'd like and how he should look around and talk to other guys about their relationships and whether they do (or want to do) this sort of thing around/when they have a steady guy; maybe if you have an older guy in your life that you trust who could talk to him?
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He really doesn't have many friends in the local area.
He went to college out of state [another catholic school!!!], and when he moved back home all of his friends had left town. He has cousins who live locally. They seem the same. One of them handed him little porn star business cards from Vegas, he keeps all of them in his wallet.
Weird.
Cheap.
I wish his parents would say something about how off it is.
His mother isn't a particularly strong female figure [clearly, since he yells at her in front of me and she just laughs it off.], so I assume she's not really concerned about what his choice of aesthetics suggests about his view on women.