
Nov 05, 2011, 08:51 PM
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Member Since: Jan 2011
Location: Hell
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Originally Posted by eskielover
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Going through grief is such a very personal thing. It's difficult to handle because it's so different for each person. There us no set pattern to know how to handle it either & when we know how horrible the person was feeling that they felt no other choice than to end their life when all around were trying to make them understand how important their life was to others, it makes it that much more difficult. Coming to peace with situations like this sometimes never does happen....most of the time the best we can do is accept it for what happened & accept our emotions rather than try to fight them knowing that they are appropriate feelings to have given what happened. As long as we don't allow those emotions to control our life to the point where we can't function because of them, they are appropriate.
I think coming to your thread here & being able to express your feelings is a wonderful healing way to handle your grief. Sending you many  's & lots of caring understanding & lots of 
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Thank you eskielover for your comment and hugs. Just finding it hard atm and this always seems to come up when i feel this way...i know i will be fine and get pasted this....i have to....i have no choice...It'd why i like coming back here and posting....kinda helps me. Sending hugs back, thank you!! notspecial
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Don't get caught up in what could be, instead appreciate what is. Appreciate what you have & who you have, because the future can take it away from you.
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