Wow Milly, I read your post and my immediate thoughts were how strong you are to offer people your help, awesome, awesome, awesome.

I read a book called UGLY it is a true account of this woman who lived thru pretty much the same sort of horror that you went thru. Awesome book!! She has since grown up and put her self thru school and work and she is now one of Englands top female judges!!

I also feel that with your sense of strength, you are going to achieve a lot in your life and be a great friend and healer of broken people. May God bless you, biggest huggles!!