@pgrundy: it was a dream of a man in a white suit and tophat, driving up our driveway (in each dream apparently) and setting my house on fire, (smelled of fire in his dream) smoked cigarettes, i made the other person guess what car the guy drove, got it dead right. i remember it so well i found the model of the real car. year and everything. but the man was harmful to both of us and very terrifying in the dreams. the other person has also manage to know i was a female, and that my father was a cook. this whole thing still stumps me. its just so out there! and ill keep you guys posted on any other updates or questions!