I'm gay and I've been with my boyfriend for almost seven months. For the past few months I've seen some text messages to other guys and when I confronted him about it he just tells me that I'm jealous paranoid and keeping him from having a social life. Apparently I'm just so nosy... I guess I shouldn't be looking through his in the first place but my first time discovering anything wasn't because I was suspicious. Now I'm having a hard time trusting him. And he insists that he loves me...i don't know what to do!