Sounds like your T is like my old T. I found out after 2.5 years that she would have been perfectly happy to sit there and waste our time until the end of eternity as long as I kept forking over the cash. With no results. I guess there are some bad eggs out there in the therapy community. They are probably pretty rare though. I think you get to a certain stage (fed up) and then you just KNOW its time to get rid of him/her and get a new T. There is no mistaking it when you get to that stage. You can just feel it - there is no denying it.