Kehly,

It isn't easy to set your boundaries and not take all the stuff that he projects on you. Even if he has a mental disorder, that's no excuse for treating people badly, especially if he is not willing to get treatment. I have personality disorders too, but I still have to be responsible for my own behavior. If he won't change and won't go to counseling, you would probably benefit from going yourself so that you can learn some strategies for dealing with him and/or be able to recover from the way he has treated you.

Good luck and keep yourself safe! Let us know, okay?
Rap