My T said "mommy urges" and loving your T was ok. I loved my old T and new T knows it and told me old T knew it to even though I did not tell her. Old T sent me a card when my dad died and told me she loved me years later. T's can love too but I guess they have to be careful so clients do not get the wrong ideas and fantasies. Old T was Christian and always told me she loved me like God would want. I have just started the dependent phase with my new T in which I said I would not do this time, so I guess love may be on the horizon. Right now I just need her attention. Knowing that I can have her attention once a week is enough with my complicated trust issues. My littles need help. My adult needs it. Help is enough for me right now.