It seems they never set a date for assessment originally. The ins. co. claim agent called my T and proposed what they want to do and asked him to also attend. He hadn't decided yet to allow them to do this.
Because I'm so stressed about it, and other stuff in my life right now (had pneumonia; thunderstorms beginning again, issues with elderly parent) he wasn't sure it was a good idea. (I think he wasn't sure it was a good idea in the first place

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Then when I told T that I wasn't sure I could still live in the house after they (the enemy reps) were in it... (paranoia strikes deep)... he began leaning towards it not happening ...for sure not NOW......
He said it's his responsibility to protect me (psychologically.)
The PTSD is running rampant in my brain.