I am a mother of a 27 year old who lives five states away and wants me to move my sick husband, bipolar teenage daughter and myself and all our belongings to another town to be closer to him. His father won't even consider the idea so he won't talk to him. It's tearing me apart. I have a 21 year old who is engaged to a girl whose entire family live in the same small town we live in. They'll never move. And if there are eventually grandkids, and I'm in another state...??? I have a 14 year bipolar daughter who has school phobia and is online schooled at home. She is so dysfunctional she can't be in a social situation for longer than two hours. Who is going to care for her as she gets older? I feel terribly stressed by all this and need some advice.