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Originally Posted by melissa.recovering
Just a thought...have you thought about trying to express things in other ways besides words? Maybe music, or painting, drawing, etc. It wouldn't be a clear expression, per se, but it would be a way to let some frustration out. And then maybe after expressing yourself in a different way, the words might come more easily.
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Just recently I started to play again (clarinet), and I hope the words will come, but I hope I'll make the time to play. I just hope it helps.
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Originally Posted by Sannah
How about just talking about what is difficult in your life?
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The hard/difficult stuff is almost to hard to talk about, between the si, and classes, and the control issues. I haven't found to many people that actually know about what really is going on. Which for me makes it hard to talk about. Putting things into words, is very hard.
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Originally Posted by nicoleb2
I can really relate. It has taken me 4 years with my T to even begin to be able to talk about feelings and emotions, to be able to do anything other than just kid of avoid the real issues because I didn't have words for them.
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Nicole, that's exactly how it is, I avoid the big real issues. for that same reason. And the fact that I give up the control that I think I have over the issues. I like control and If I feel like I'm loosing control, I freak.
I am going to try to play again, and to get out what I'm feeling, but at the same time, I'm scared of a lot of things. (for one not getting what I've worked hard for to earn, long story)