I don't necessarily agree with ADD saying that he would not be happy even if it were an "accident". I am not saying to go ahead and poke holes in a condom but I only know a couple people who had a child 100% by choice.

My big thing is that you say you have a 7 yr old and you are only 24? It doesn't sound like you have had a chance to even be a young adult, having a child at 17. What do you think is making you "broody"?