I have been separated for almost 4 years now and something has been bothering me since I left my wife. Almost since the day I left, my wife has started living the life that I had always wanted her to and doing the things after I left that she would never ever do when we were together.

A day never goes by when something happens that feels like a slap in the face because she has become the person she refused to be when we were together. Is this some type of jealousy on my part?