Thank you everyone for your input.

I do realize my family cares for me and am lucky that way. I just get frustrated sometimes.
I'm trying to really watch what I say and when I say it since teenagers are so touchy. That's been helping a little bit.

I talked with my husband about my feelings and he was understanding so I'm hoping things will go better.

One problem- teenage son home from college for rest of semester, wants to do what he wants when he wants, its what he's used to.

Sorry buddy have to go by my rules if you want to live in my home!