My first husband drove like an idiot and caused accidents and once parked where a gasoline truck backed into us while he went to get cigarettes - in my neighborhood, as I told him it was NOT a parking spot, he was in a driveway, my legs could have been crushed or I could have been killed - THAT'S a dealbreaker, not what you're looking at! Agree, he could have some health or vision issues. In these "green" times, just as well he doesn't drive - you won't have to pay for 2 cars all the time, etc. If YOU are independent enough to drive, that is. My mother always drove us, altho my dad drove himself to do the local grocery shopping. He always carpooled to the factory, ie paid someone else to pick him up. We never took family vacations like driving cross country so that wasn't an issue. I guess I would find out the real reason why before going further. Maybe he did something stupid when he was younger that will always be a burden, and do you want to live with that burden?
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