Hello, hope your ok,
I was in a relationship for 9 years with my partner, he has very severe mental health problems and I found it very hard to understand what he was going through, how he felt and what support he needed from me. I always felt like it was my fault when he was distant, nasty, upset, angry, I didn't understand it was always the illness. Is it possible your husband is struggling to understand what your going through? I wish somebody had sat down and discussed and explained it all to me then maybe we wouldn't have fallen apart in the end. Hope your ok, XKim.