hello gashly
In the first year or so when I was at psychcentral I was frustrated because I didn't feel like I fit in with the people here. It seemed at the time that I was surrounded by emo teenagers. Nothing wrong with teens but I was looking for someone who had experiences that they could share and I could learn. It took me quite awhile to learn how to use the site for my benefit.
I hope you can find the help you are looking for.