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(JD) · Nov 07, 2011, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by thefascinatedone

First of all, I would like to clarify that I'm from USA.

I have a desire to become a psychologist.

However, people around me, who claim to know the best, say that I should not choose psychology as I apparently would not be a good psychologist. I am unsure about why exactly they say so.
I can be extremely calm at most times but I do get angry with my parents sometimes and act in a rude manner. (never to the extent of hitting a family member though) Isn't that something which is common and very much normal?
Second thing is that communication is not exactly my plus point. I'm 17 but I do not engage into as much social interaction as I am supposed to at this age.

I edited your post to the above because I think these are the main factors so far.

You are only 17 and while you could be farther along in your emotional development, I doubt that you are too far behind to catch up. Being able to prevent anger, use it properly and not be rude to anyone, including your parents, are probably good skills to develop.

That you have a desire is good. No one really wants to work a job they don't like or in which have no interest. Can you figure out the "why" you have that desire?

Generally being able to talk easily with people, being the one people come to for advice and help are common among those going into the field. There are many fields to psychology, and you are young and still maturing, so I think you'll know by the time you are done with the bachelor degree if this is what you want.

No one is perfect and no will ever be. The key is to learn to embrace your weaknesses and work around them or develop them to be stronger.

I would see if your friends can open up to the real reason (you think you already know?) why they would say don't go this route. It may be important, and then again, you may not be sharing with them because of the type of friends they are... only you can figure this out.

Why not take a self assessment to find out what type of work would really suit you and make you happy? If you test out to being on the boundary with psychology, then put your electives into the other closest area of career choices and then if you need to switch over, it's easier. (I switched majors for my PhD!

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Good wishes!