i kno exactly how you feel! my husband is a big time gamer! we have a 2 year old and she cant b around him when hes playing because he'll b a jerk to her especially if she interupts him. ive learned to deal with it and just let him have his own time. he does spend time with her not as much i would like. but when hes in his playing session i just dont let the baby near him. have you expressed how u feel about it to him?