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Welcome....I just answered a similar post about a young woman married for a short time.......First of all I am sorry this is happening......you are seeing red flags and you should be..time for a real good talk.......he is telling you that you are a jealous paranoid to shift the blame off of himself to you, making you think there is something wrong with you. There is not!!!!!!!!!!! You are right in your feelings and this needs to be resolved. You will never be able to trust again and thats the whole framework of a good relationship.IF he has other guy friends thats good but he should be able to explain it all to you and you should probably know these guys as well...afterall they are his friends right??????????????????????????
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