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Old Nov 08, 2011, 02:55 AM
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Originally Posted by SarahMichelle View Post
... we've gone out to eat, we've gone for walks, I've heard her argue with her husband, I've heard her yell at her dogs (and her husband!)...
You have a very privileged relationship with your T.

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Originally Posted by SarahMichelle View Post
For what its worth, I don't think your T cured your depression all by herself... you probably did a great deal of work and thinking to do that on your OWN.
That's kind of you, and at least partly true. But I worked as hard at BEING DEPRESSED before I met her as I did on CURING MY DEPRESSION afterwards. One of the tragedies of depression is the way it uses your own energy against you. T directed that energy in more constructive ways.

However, we must also remember that I would never have had any therapy of any kind if my wife hadn't talked me into it twenty years ago. Without her, I would have gone on thinking depression was normal and inevitable. She's the one who really saved my life.
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