Hello again,

There are plenty of people who do NOT want "fun people in their lives." There are people just like you, who are unhappy, and wish they had someone to talk to also. See if you can find others like yourself who have problems with men. (Is there a woman alive who has not had "problems with men?" )

Pity Parties can be a lot of fun when everyone is in the same frame of mind! They bring to light some of the thinking that makes things turn out the way they turn out. All of us have been in similar situations at one time or another. You are not alone, believe me, problems with men are the most common problems in the world for women. It beats out career problems ten to one. See if you can find some friends who want to chat with you about these things. You need support right now more than anything. One of the nice things about pity parties is that eventually they end up in laughter, especially at ourselves and our ability to get ourselves into these amazing situations.


Choices, it's all about choices.