I tell it all. I figure you are paying this person and spending precious time there. You might as well do it right and get the most out of it as you can. Earlier this week I was hesitant to tell her some things I did that might be considered suicidal behaviors. I just didn't want her to send me to the hospital or make it a bigger deal than it was. As for embarrassing stuff I don't care. I told her I was a slut at a point in my life and told about drug use in my past and I tell her my current sex problems. Honesty will let T be able to make better decisions about your treatment. Squiggle you go in there and let it all out! I lately have been writing down what I want to say because sometimes when you are there your mind goes all over the place. Good luck babe.