I've been wondering about this topic lately and I would really appreciate it if people gave me their input. Any advice is welcomed. Ok, so I know people with Asperger's have very limited interests and I was wondering if any of you feel like you have to be with someone who likes a lot of the same things, and is this a bad thing? I have been in a committed relationship for over 3 years now, and I have always felt like I wasn't with the right person, despite us getting along and being happy together, I've never felt like my heart has been in this relationship. I was wondering if maybe my asperger's would have anything to do with this, or if perhaps i'm not sure what love is? Should I listen to my heart and find my "soulmate", or go on in this relationship thinking what if?