I'mNotReal, I like LynnP's suggestion

I can't really advice much, but I use to always say this: "Never say never for you never really know" I know it is a contradiction at the end, but we as humans don't know everything, we don't know the future.

WE can work on ourselves in the present to stop the things that we do not like about ourselves or that we do, tough work I know but still keep trying.