I'm sorry you are not feeling well, but I think it is way too much to expect that someone get up at 3am to make you soup when they have to work the next day. I would not expect my husband to do that. If you have a life threatening illness or something, wake them up, but not over that.
Most men are not nurturers, and not mind readers so you have to be very specific about what you need, or they don't know. You can't expect them to act like grandma and take care of you. It doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. So tell him exactly what you need, but not at 3am. Hope you feel better soon.