Thanks for the help guys! No he never brings her up anymore now that we are in a relationship, sometimes I do as part of the insecurity of the situation and he usually gets mad at me for bringing her up and says he only ever thinks about her when I bring her up! He says he's happier with me than he has ever been and he was so young when he was with her! (about 17-21). Even though he reasures me if I bring it up I still wonder WHY he talked about her in the first place, I have ex's too but I have so little interest in them now that they never even pop into my head! Maybe it's just a guy thing, or maybe it's because she was his first girlfriend/love?? No he never said he wanted to get back with her or that he had feelings for her, it was pretty much just loads of memories of her and him together popping into his head! I think the best thing I can do is stop tormenting myself and forget about it..