Anneinside and Secretum: The more I’ve read about borderline, the more I feel like I have it too. As discouraging as it is to pile another disorder onto my list, it’s also kind of nice to have a better understanding of why I do the things I do. The first step to recovery is understanding, I suppose. And Secretum, don't feel bad. I’ve only had 2 real relationships. The rest I ruined before we ever got the chance to become serious :P You’ll find love soon enough. Love just loves to surprise you when you least expect it lol
Lad007, beauflow, and trippin 2.0: Thank you so much for letting me know I’m not the only one who acts this way in relationships. It’s wonderful to hear that some of you have managed to find someone who’s stuck with you through it all. You’ve given me hope J And trippin 2.0 – I know how much this sucks. But after reading these posts, it seems that you and I still have a really good chance to find love too. And when we do, our relationships will be so strong b/c our partners will be able to work with us and love us throughout our “temper-tantrums,” as I like to call them lol. Just takes patience, I guess.
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