Hell if I know. I'm still not over the last guy who broke up with me. It was a short lived relationship, but still hurts deeply. I'm sure he moved on already, I just can't seem to for some reason. Don't know why.

When I was with him, I actually found myself missing an ex a lot, at times. I realized that it wasn't the ex, it was just things he did that weren't being met in this relationship. I guess maybe b/c bpders have trouble identifying and processing emotions that it takes a while longer to resolve them than most?