Grad school + ADD... I can see why you would think that might end in failure- Can you go part time for your graduate degree? I personally have a limit of three classes! I can manage that but it is still hard for me. I have a daughter who is getting ready to go to college and she has the same issues that I do with ADD and she is planning on living in the dorm and going to school full time. I am afraid she is setting herself up for failure.