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Old Nov 09, 2011, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Secretum View Post
...I also sometimes wish that we could be as open in real life as we are here. I think I'd be a lot less lonely.
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Originally Posted by AniManiac View Post
Yes, this.
Amazing what anonymity does for our willingness to be open, isn't it? And knowing that I won't run into any of you at the grocery store and get all awkwardly embarrassed about the last thing I might have posted here. Not that I would mind running into any of you at the grocery store!
Both oh so true! Though a lack of being open is far from my only reason in not connecting/being lonely, it's undoubtedly one of them. I have walls upon walls, and I have only recently managed to let a few down with my psych. It's timely how you mention the anonymity thing, AniManiac. I said this just yesterday at my appt.! Same with the grocery store, even really wishing that I did know some PCers IRL, but am realistic enough to know that I would just clam up again... Sigh.

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Originally Posted by AniManiac View Post
.. It turns out that carrying around a copy of "War and Peace" in middle school is a really good way to make sure no one likes you...
Too funny on the big Russian books. It was Nicholas and Alexandra I was reading at that time(!) (It didn't cause any problems per se, they'd always existed, but it probably didn't help, lol.) Oh, middle school. I don't think anyone wishes to experience that again!
Thanks for this!
Secretum